Yes, we can choose subconsious thoughts.  Life is about choices. To have a happier, more fulfilling life, we must choose happier, more fulfilling thoughts.  Both consciously and unconsciously.  This is consistent with Laws of Attraction (LOA) and prayer, which is a form of LOA. 

While it seems difficult or counter intuitive to choose unconscious thoughts, really there is a way.

For instance, have you ever found yourself missing someone or something?  Consciously, or unconsciously?

Missing something NEVER feels good.  Yet we call our children, or our parents, or our loved ones, and say, “I miss you!”  Saying this DOES NOT make us feel better.  We are hoping to hear them say, “I miss you too.”  This is a codependent needy emptiness creating form of loneliness.   It creates on the conscious and unconscious level all sort of mischief for us.

To just think of something else, a happier thought, also would not be fully effective.  Why?  Because that moves the conscious down the subconscious, and the subconscious down to the deep subconscious…

So, what to do? 

Well, address the missing directly.  Use contrast to create a better thought, consciously.  This will then filter down to positive subconscious thoughts and creatings.

What do we do then when we miss something or someone? 

Well there may be other ways, though, for me, what works is one of two things.  Be grateful, for what we have or look forward to seeing and/or experiencing again.

Gratitude is always a good feeling.  It can be effective for loved ones past, or with the passing of age, for things we have done in the past.  Gratitude feels fabulous.

Looking forward to doing, seeing, having or experiencing something again is harmonious with positive creating, consistent with LOA, feels great and works!

Sublime peace and love,

Yucel