How often do you hear someone say, ” you don’t make me feel special!” Or, perhaps you feel someone doesn’t make you feel special? Remember, it is a positive attracting universe. If you don’t feel special, you are right. You are always right.
Be right by realizing that you are special. Think instead, “I am special.” Believe it. Know the ways you are special. When, you talk with someone else, realize no one can make you feel anything. What you feel is your personal choice.
Special is something you are intrinsicly. It cannot be taken away from you. Unless you give it up. And, even then, you are right only because you are always right. You are special in your non specialness, by choice. Choose to be special. It is your birthright.
Say and think instead, “I am special. I feel special around you. I will be making choices that reasonate with how special I am. I am responsible for recognizing my specialness and the respect that I recieve as a consequence of the respect I honor myself.”
This is not a mantra. Say it knowing it. Know how you are special as you say it. It must be done thoughfully, with self respect. When you tell someone how special you feel, or when you tell the universe, say it in a way you believe. For instance, I am special in that there is only one me, in the only one now. And, in this instance, I am unique. Not only am I unique in creation, I am unique in this exact very instance. In this moment, I am special now. I am always special in every now. It’s easy to believe. It’s true for each and every one of us in each and every instance. The you you are in this instance, is unique from the you in any instant hence. Appreciate your specialness in each instance. In the instance, the present, is the only place you can appreciate anything. Everything happens in the now. Including your specialness. You are special now. You will always be special now.
Remember, we attract what we are. Believe you are special. Know it, and you will attract, through the Law, commensurate with your specialness. Believe otherwise, and you will be right as well, and will attract accordingly.
You are as attractive and as special as you believe, infinitely and unboundedly so. Choose well, believe well, live well.
Love and peace on your journey,
Yucel
So, very interesting writing. I feel like you are writing on subjects that are on my mind already. Interesting.
This subject about feeling good about self is a biggy. What you write is so very true. I think it takes lots and lots of practice saying those things to yourself, taking time to really get and hear oneself saying it. I , along with lots of people I know have emotions come up like out of the closet when their EGO, their worth feels threatened. It stops communication and sometimes in the middle of a conversation the emotions “seem” to take over. Do you recomend having a card to pull out at those times? or what else? Maybe the practice while feeling good is the key so when you/I get into a conversation that feeling of worth would stick. It’s tuff when a person grows up thinking there is something wrong with them.
So love what you wrote.
IRene
Hello Irene,
Good point. Many of us are in a box caught between our ego and our story.
The trick is, if we use a trick, we know on some level we are using a trick; and, we are not fooled by the trick.
While a card may be quite effective as a mnemonic device, to remind us of what we know is so about the uniqueness and speciallness of all life, all matter and all energy, and yes, each of us, you, me, us, we, I …
If the card is more than a memory tool, to remind us of what we already know, it becomes a mantra or trick, which will not fool us.
We must KNOW. The thing is, I believe you do know; and each of us does know, at our core, this truth. Sometimes, we just need a little reminder, or gentle word. This could be on a reminder card. Excellent idea.
Pleace and love,
Yucel